For the past hour or so, I had been browsing Facebook & some of my friends' profile. Not intending to stalk, but just curious as to how they had been, as I've not seen some for close to a year already. As for my close friends, I just popped by their profile to see what's up. What I saw came as a surprise. Friends around me these days are thinking alot, way too much. Getting head over heels in relationships, resorting to scolding their parents a barrage of brutal language in the cyber world, & even putting one down by criticising others openly, be it on Facebook or through Blogger. I mean, I'm in no right to intervene, but isn't time to slow things down and let nature takes it's course? We're only teenagers, if we can't even handle our problems well now, how are we gona to handle problems smashed right in our face, when we go out in the "real" world. Our parents may be coming home with a smile plastered on their face every time, but have you ever took time off to wonder if that smile is/was just a facade to cover their stress & pressure? No right? We always claim that our parents don't understand us enough, but do we ourselves? Like me, you guys feel that we've not been given enough freedom. But, if you really think through it, don't you think what our parents are doing is sorely for our own good? Sure, they could let us hang out late at night everyday, they have nothing to lose. The person on the losing end is us. Our studies would take a turn for the worst & in worst case scenarios, we might even mix with bad company and who knows what might become of us. As the saying goes "It takes 3 years to turn good, but 3 days to turn back."
As for BGR(s), I guess I'm really in no position to comment. From what I've seen in my daily school life, I fully understand that relationships could get quite havoc, complicated, and well...devastating. However, if you want a simple/carefree/happy life, then may I post the question back to you. "Why commit?" If you say that you've no idea that things would turn out this way, all I've got to say is "It's time you grow up. In this world, there's nothing as beautiful as what you've always imagined". Sometimes, I agree, it's good to truly love once, & then understand the true definition of "Suffering a heartbreak". But do keep this in mind, don't overdo it, just so to forget the previous relationships. Don't lie to your partner, don't lie to yourself & most importantly, don't lie about what love really is. No one likes being played, I repeat, no one.
You might argue and say that it's easy for me to say/type these as I have, in the eyes of many, a perfect life. Well, I can't deny this. From 1st class parents, to lovable friends, to having a roof over my head & lastly, to have someone whom really care about me, what more could I ask for? But! It's not that it just dropped to me from the sky, it's because I thought things through, & realised that I deserved all of them. Happiness is what I pursue after.
With this, I end whatever I wanted to say. I leave you guys to think for yourself. Just what in life do you really want?
